In 2000, there were over 1.5 million children who were adopted. Thanks to the media and the uninformed person, there are still many myths about adoption that are cycling through our society. So what’s the truth about adoption, and what is just false information? Here are some common myths dispelled.
“But when the fullness of the time came, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the law, so that He might redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive the adoption as sons.” Galatians 4:4-5
Myth: There are no healthy infants available for adoption in the US.
Truth: There are thousands of families who adopt healthy infants in the US.
Myth: It takes years to complete an adoption.
Truth: The average wait time for families is 1-2 years. However, a recent poll in Family Life Magazine found most families are able to complete their adoption in about a year.
Myth: Only rich people can afford to adopt.
Truth: The average adoption cost between $15,ooo-40,000. However, there is a tax credit of over $11,000 for adopting families, and several states offer additional benefits. There are also employee benefits offered at 1 in 5 businesses, and organizations who give grants. Additionally, there are special needs subsidies for families who adopt a special needs child. For links on financing adoption, click here.
Myth: Adopted children will be emotionally and developmentally behind.
Truth: Studies show that adopted children are emotionally the same as their non-adopted peers. Both adopted and non-adopted children can have emotional issues. Children who are adopted internationally might be developmentally behind, but research has shown these children catch up once they are brought home.
